The memorial for my father-in-law was yesterday. It was a week after the private viewing, which in some ways was too long a wait. Knowing a full week you're going to go through an emotional day can be difficult.
On the other hand, I think it helps getting to closure and peace by having an additional gathering of people and emotions after letting some of the realization sink in.
He passed May 28, the private viewing was May 31, and the public ceremony was June 6. As tough as the gap was on family, I think going forward, they will be able to heal more quickly, especially after all of the wonderful memories and stories shared yesterday.
At least I hope that's what will happen.
Elf
2 weeks ago
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